1995年12月19号 
            你没有回来,老孙你到底在那里? 回来吧!
            我以为一年后会好一点,但我还不是一样,时间才会过得这样慢!

            1996年11月
            两年了 两年了 你可不可以回来一次啊,再回来一次就好
            我答应你我不会留你的,你可以走,好不好?

            1997年12月
            我觉得我好了,今年回来没有那么难受
            看着这张床,是有一些记忆
            但没有那么痛
            我坐下 笑一下
            忘记你原来不太难

            1998年10月3日
            你是不是死了??你是不是死拉!!!!!!!!!!!
            为什么不回来?
            贪慕虚荣
            我不要在再见到你!你去死吧!我狠你!!!!我狠你!!!!!!

            1999年12月30日
            我也当了演员了
            真的你不要笑我
            也许有一天 我们会合作一部戏
            2001年12月6日
            你还好吗?
            外面下着很大的雪
－孙：如果要想起过去.那我情愿没有过去
－林：你不是以前的老孙！以前的老孙爱我！
－林：从你离开的时候开始，我就不敢睡觉，因为我害怕每一次在梦中重新失去你。
－孙：阿东，记着，最爱你的人永远是你自己
－孙：爱情，没有过！
－残酷的天地 一只小蚂蚁 没有叹息的权利
明明是你声音 是你的背影
             你用陌生的眼神 让我沉默
             难道是你故意 试探我的心”

时间已经到了 
            场景已经搭了 
            摄影棚也亮了 
            大门打开了 
            服装已选定了 
            嗓门也拉开了 
            节奏也配合了 
            两手准备了 
            拍，过去从前 
            拍，爱恨交缠 
            拍，重重恩怨 
            悲欢离合戏一场 
            短，不过一瞬 
            长，不过永远 
            留在天上人间 
            现在有多近，回忆有多远 
            回忆有多重，现在有多倦 
            现在没有爱，回忆往哪里伸延 
            什么爱情故事，可以填饱肚子 
            谁会给这故事，最明显位置 
            如果爱情故事，总是来之不易 
            谁让爱情故事，像黑板的字 
            刷，过去从前 
            刷，爱恨交缠 
            刷，重重恩怨 
            悲欢离合戏一场 
            短，不过一瞬 
            长，不过永远 
            什么天上人间？ 
            这个爱情故事（回忆有多远） 
            忘了爱情故事 
            留住爱情故事 
            这个爱情故事 
            忘了爱情故事 
            留住爱情故事 
            现在有多近，回忆有多远 
            回忆有多重，现在有多倦 
            现在没有爱，回忆往哪里伸延 
            现在有多近，回忆有多远 
            回忆有多重，现在有多倦 
            现在没有爱，回忆往哪里伸延 
            一切是过眼云烟 

            他曾经有一个爱情故事 
            少年时情浓时 
            说来也甜蜜 
            他们曾是一对青梅竹马 
            男的欢女的爱 
            好令人妒忌 
            然后女主角遗失了回忆 
            开头是难忘 
            结局是忘记 
            失去的，多回肠荡气 
            记不记得也是福气 
            男的拥有美丽回忆 
            那女的幸福在不懂叹息 
            他曾经有一个伤感故事 
            得不到大团圆，才死心塌地 
            火热的爱情只出于暂时 
            又何必固执于偶然的事 
            忘了吧忘了吧爱情故事 
            不如醉生梦死一无所知 
            再提起再提起无补于事 
            知道了又怎样重新开始 
            我曾经有一个爱情故事 
            我开始怀疑它 
            是否真实 

"I am retiring because I have nothing to prove to myself. My biggest challenge was last year. Once I did that I felt really it is time," he said referring to last year's U.S. Open triumph following two barren years.

"I am content. I am 100 percent content with what I have done."

Sampras had not played competitively since that final showdown with Andre Agassi 12 months ago and his announcement of retirement came as no surprise.

Still, though, it marked the end of an era and Sampras was due to bid an emotional farewell to his fans on the U.S. Open center court later on Monday.

"It was an emotional drive coming here for the last time," the American said. "To be back on the court, to see the fans.

"It is tough to stop doing something I love to do, I have been doing since I was seven. It is hard to stop," he added, tears welling.

Good husband

"Now I am going to watch my boy grow up, be a good husband.

"I know in my heart I am 100 percent done. I am not coming back and I am at peace with it.

"Tennis is a lot of work, a lot of focus and I have been doing this for a long time -- I am not going to play to say goodbye, if I play I am going to play to win.

"It is something that has to be in your blood and after winning here last year I felt it go away. I am at peace with that."

Sampras said he had missed playing at Wimbledon -- where he won a record-equalling seven titles. -- this year but he would return to the tournament as a visitor.

"I missed it. But it is another tournament, it is a grind. To be honest, there were times I was glad I was at home.

"But I will go back there and have a cup of tea. I will definitely be back there, I miss it a lot."

Modest as ever, Sampras rejected suggestions he can be called the greatest player of all time.

"I will not sit here and say I am the greatest ever. That will never happen. I have won a number of things and that speaks for itself.

"I have played perfect tennis in my mind on occasion and I feel my game will match up to anyones.

Miss playing

"I have a whole bunch of memories. What happened here, my Wimbledon finals, staying on top for so many years. Just the majors that I have won, they mean a lot to me. I had a great career that I am proud of.

"I played some great players over the years, the Andre Agassis the Boris Beckers. There were some great matches that I am proud of being a part of.

"But I went through all the emotions, went through everything I needed to convince me I was done.

"I know what it takes to do it and I am not there any more, it is time to stop.

"I will miss playing, I will miss competing, the competition, the rush of going out there in finals in front of 20,000 people.

"I will miss the simple joy of playing tennis."

Tennis will also miss Sampras.

哲人说，人生有时只有两天，一天是出生，一天是死亡。

就这样过完了一辈子的，很多人。

也有一些人，在出生的当天，学会了一桩有趣的技艺，投身其中，乐此不疲。于是“山中无甲子，寒尽不知年”。在出生与死亡之间，人类有了生活。

生活的日子一天天拉长，死亡的阴影退回远方。

人们生儿育女，做着各自喜欢的技艺，孩子在风烟里成长，耳濡目染，萌生理想，"长大了，要像爸爸一样……”

于是，生命的意义 存在价值，就像那有趣的技艺一样传了下去。

想起来，这世上确有一些人，他们对于某一项事业的热爱，贯穿家族与年代，直到那种热爱变成了生活本身。对于他们，我有着深深的敬意，我用以上的话语方式，概括了他们的生命存在，并对世间种种有趣的技艺心存感激。

那种有趣的技艺或事业，对于周大鑫老人来说，就是飞行了。一样的蓝天，父亲飞了36年，又把他留给了女儿女婿，他们一个是空乘，一个是飞行员，飞行时刻表上有着一家人的生活。

因为热爱，那种枯燥平凡的生活，有了一网情深、若即若离的诗意。虽然这生活总是悲喜交集，有着种种离别之苦。

就像漂泊的人说，我在处即故乡。双飞的夫妻说，家就在白云上，落下来时，倒像是外出休假，倒像是在异乡，只剩下孩子寄生在地上，只剩下父母一天天牵肠挂肚。

只是，有了热爱，生活才不是那样浑浑噩噩，才不会觉得那么苦，那离别之痛才有了美感。

飞行世家的故事告诉我们，人生有时还可以这样过；一天是出生，还有一天是飞行。

－－观《大国的崛起》有感

[英]约翰多恩
没有人是一座孤岛，
可以自全。
每个人都是大陆的一片，整体的一部分。

如果海水冲掉一块，
欧洲就减小，
如同一个海岬失掉一角，
如同你的朋友或者你自己的领地失掉一块：

任何人的死亡都是我的损失，
因为我是人类的一员，
因此／不要问丧钟为谁而鸣，
它就为你而鸣。

No man is an island,
entire of itself;
every man is a piece of the continent,
a part of the main.
If a clod be washed away by the sea,
Europe is the less,
as well as if a promontory were,
as well as if a manor of thy friend’s or of thine own were:
any man’s death diminishes me,
because I am involved in mankind,and, therefore,
never send to know for whom the bells tolls;
it tolls for thee.

[印]泰戈尔

世界上最远的距离
不是 生与死的距离
而是 我站在你面前
你不知道我爱你

世界上最远的距离
不是 我站在你面前
你不知道我爱你
而是 爱到痴迷
却不能说我爱你

世界上最远的距离
不是 我不能说我爱你
而是 想你痛彻心脾
却只能深埋心底

世界上最远的距离
不是 我不能说我想你
而是 彼此相爱
却不能够在一起

世界上最远的距离
不是 彼此相爱
却不能够在一起
而是明知道真爱无敌
却装作毫不在意

世界上最远的距离
不是 树与树的距离
而是 同根生长的树枝
却无法在风中相依

世界上最远的距离
不是 树枝无法相依
而是 相互了望的星星
却没有交汇的轨迹

世界上最远的距离
不是 星星之间的轨迹
而是 纵然轨迹交汇
却在转瞬间无处寻觅

世界上最远的距离
不是 瞬间便无处寻觅
而是 尚未相遇
便注定无法相聚

世界上最远的距离
是鱼与飞鸟的距离
一个在天,一个却深潜海底

 
The most distant way in the world

The most distant way in the world
is not the way from birth to the end.
it is when i sit near you
that you don't understand i love u.

The most distant way in the world
is not that you're not sure i love u.
It is when my love is bewildering the soul
but i can't speak it out.

The most distant way in the world
is not that i can't say i love u.
it is after looking into my heart
i can't change my love.

The most distant way in the world
is not that i'm loving u.
it is in our love
we are keeping between the distance.

The most distant way in the world
is not the distance across us.
it is when we're breaking through the way
we deny the existance of love.

So the most distant way in the world
is not in two distant trees.
it is the same rooted branches
can't enjoy the co-existance.

So the most distant way in the world
is not in the being sepearated branches.
it is in the blinking stars
they can't burn the light.

So the most distant way in the world
is not the burning stars.
it is after the light
they can't be seen from afar.

So the most distant way in the world
is not the light that is fading away.
it is the coincidence of us
is not supposed for the love.

So the most distant way in the world
is the love between the fish and bird.
one is flying at the sky,
the other is looking upon into the sea.

[清]无名氏

浩浩愁，茫茫劫；短歌终，明月缺。郁郁佳城，中有碧血；碧亦有时尽，血亦有时灭。一缕香魂无断绝！
是耶？非耶？化为蝴蝶。